Please answer, needing advice that could change my life for the better?

Im almost 17. heres some info: I am about 5,10, 155 .. great shape for my age. I need some advice on clothing styles to impress diff types of girls. There are quite a few girls that love to rave with me/go club-party. but theres 2 problems. 1) the girls at my highschool.. they dont like or dislike.. it seems like a lot of them dont notice me.. even though i am above average in looks, and have been told that im quite talented, i dont know how to get there attention more. 2) (more importantly to me) I sometimes have troubles finding what to do with girls when we hangout either just us two, or with a small group. I think it would be A LOT easier for me, if i was better on picking up on how these girls like to see men dress, and act moreso. i know there are a lot of questions here, but i would appreciate it if someone took time to help me out. some extra info. girl #1 is a year younger, but shes very developed and is quite socially mature for her age. has older friends, a few piercings, loves to rave,.. etc. i would like to know how to get them more interested.Please answer, needing advice that could change my life for the better?
Hello,





I remember being 16 just like it were yesterday and honestly you'll come to realize with age that you need to be YOU. Having to 'act' a certain way is not who you really are as you are trying to be someone you 'think' someone else will like.





In reality, girls like quiet confidence without arrogance.





It's not clothes, it's not what you do, it's not pick up lines, just pure confidence in who you are as a person.





In your question you state you are above average in looks, you say you are 'told' you are talented and you also have a need to find clothes to impress the girls. This is lack of confidence.





Many of the hottest men in Hollywood are that way soley from their confidence. They wear simple jeans and a T shirt and they ooze hotness. Nothing to do with the 'wear'.





Many men whom are not that good looking at all are very 'attractive' in the sense of their amazing confidence!





Start with YOU on the inside. When you feel good about yourself this will shine to others. When you love yourself (not in an arrogant way) literally love your inner being, then this will reflect.





When hanging out, and all else fails, ask questions... Questions spark conversations and conversations lead all kinds of places. The past, the future, types of foods, movies, family, etc...





Good luck, you on the right track! (oh to be 16 again...)





~Alethea





PS be above the influence...dance at raves, stay away from drugs. It's not worth the risk. Being above drugs is confidence as well and girls like that, trust me...Please answer, needing advice that could change my life for the better?
Thank you for the Top Answer :)





Honestly, you will look good in clothes you are comfortable in. What makes YOU feel good? Because when you 'feel' good, you'll be attractive on the inside and outside... Just remember to 'be' yourself, don't try to mimic anyone else. Report Abuse

Wear colors they wear, to get their favorite color. But make sure it looks good on you, hang out with some of her older friends, and try getting closer to her without it being so obvious.
You need to learn to be YOURSELF and also learn to be confident with yourself. Anything else is just a stupid game .


Finding true love (which is where this all goes in the end ) is not a game . Be real , high school is not forever.
Wear form fitting clothes, not super skinny jeans but nice fitting, with straight leg, try styling your hair differently wearing matching shirt %26amp; sweatshirt.


I like it when guys wear vans,baggy skinny jeans, and a studded belt.
Step One: Stop staring at her ';developed'; ares





Step Two: Don't take a girl to a rave. duh.





Step Three: Grow a pair.

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