Any advice on how to change my life?

I just got done with a 6 month relationship with a guy that always made me his last option for a girlfriend, [knew him for 4 years] and we are no longer in contact anymore [blocked him on everything, avoid him when i see him] and I feel pretty great, and proud of myself.





But now since I made that change in my life, im seeking more things i can do to change up my life a little more? im really happy with life right now, i've been going to the movies, hanging out with friends, spending the night with them as well.





yet, i still feel empty inside sometimes?





am i expecting too much from life or am i missing something??





i guess i am just wanting major changes in my life because i am bored with it alot lately...








p.s sorry for all the lower caps, keyboard is not working right.Any advice on how to change my life?
Don't be in a rush, take soime time to get over your previous life-style (having that boyfriend). Try not to rush into another relationship for now.


Assess your life: What's going on? What do you want? Really? Make a list, write it all down. Take some time with the list, so you can aded new ideas. At least a month or longer. THEN set some goals and go for them.


And #1 learn more about yourslef


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Once you've taken the test and have your 4-letter personality/temperament designator, go here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers-brigg鈥?/a> and scroll down to the paragraph titled: ';Type dynamics and development'; and look to the right at the rectangle titled ';The Sixteen Types'; and find your four-letter type and click on it, and read about yourself! If you answered the questions on the test honestly and accurately, you'll be amazed at how well you're described!





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http://www.amazon.com/Unleash-Warrior-Wi鈥?/a>Any advice on how to change my life?
well it's natural for you to feel this way after dating someone for six months and now having absolutely no contact with them.. i say just keep hanging out with friends and try to do things that make you busy to avoid thinking about him. read a book, watch a movie, and maybe have a girls night out or a day spa. good luck, girl!(:
Maybe you just need someone else in your life. a new friend?
i felt the same way. it just seemed like day after day, life was becoming a dull blur. basically, i found this quote:





';when is the best time of the day?


now





who is the most important one?


the person besides you





what is the right thing to do?


make sure the person besides you is happy.';





um thats basically it, i think i mismatched a few words but its still a good quote.











basically this quote is saying make the most out of whats right in front of you and never take anything for granted, because the only moment you can gurantee you have, is the one your living. you never know if your gonna make it to tommorow, next week, or even another hour.











and a really awesome book, that you should get. its called ';this book will change your life'; you could look up what the books all about on www.thiswebsitewillchangeyourlife.com that also helped me out.
I think you should bake us some cookies and we can talk about this. ha ha Well opening a bakery might help, or at least do some catering. I think you need time to get over a 4 year relationship. If you start dating now you are going to end up with a jerk. Take time to heal. I think chocolate chip cookies would be a good start, everyone is a little crazy about peanut butter right now. You can take the cookies to the hospital and leave them for nurses, or for people in the ICU. You can drop cookies off at fire departments or police departments, not just at christmas time. If you have a really good vet, you can bake some cookies for her. You could take some cookies to your local nursing home, mothers day is coming up, they might like that. Keep your mind off of your mind.

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