I have been dating this guy who is about 15 years old than me for the past three years. We mainly just hang out at his house once or twice a week, get food, occasionally go out to dinner or a movie. Well there is this guy who I have always been attracted to, and just recently we started hanging out a lot. This guy is my own age, and we have so much in common, from our hobbies, to our way of growing up, to lots. I feel like I just really click with him more so than I do with the older guy. I think about the new guy constantly and when I'm with the old guy I am still thinking about the new guy. The older guy is so good to me, and is always there when I need him, but I can't help feeling like he is holding me back, that I am missing out. I am only 22 and I know the relationship with the older guy is going nowhere and I really think I want to break up with him. It's just that I'm the worst at that kind of thing. I wish I could make him break up with me. There is no passion in the relationship and it feels more like a friendship to me. He is so good to me and I feel guilty seeing the other guy behind his back and telling him I'm with the girls (he gets really jealous-very annoying). I have no clue what to do...but it seems to be getting more and more serious and I'm getting so close to the new guy. Any advice would be great...Need some advice on my love life...?
In a few words; 'out with the old, in with the new...' Sounds like there really is no point in you and the older guy being together. He should realize this too - just tell him how you are feeling. The break up should go smooth and you'll be free with the new guy. =]Need some advice on my love life...?
start with the new meat. ditch the old guy
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