Monday, August 23, 2010

I think I've lost the love of my life, and I really need advice?

Ok, so me and my girlfriend of 28 months broke up. We are each others first in everything,planned to get married (im 20,shes19). Our relationship was a perfect serious relationship.


she is a different religion/culture, and my family will not accept her. so, it was hard for me and more for her just to accept this and keep on dating knowing that we will fight together. however, about 8 months ago, i started getting mixed feelings about her and told her maybe we're not made for each other and lets take a break. during this time, i also started hanging out with this other girl a lot and lied to her about not hanging out with her. my ex gf eventually forgave me and was madly in love with me.


but ever since then she hasnt been able to get over the fact that i emotionally cheated on her by lying(i didnt do anything with the other girl). she finally broke up with me and does not want to get back together. i know she loves me but now shes trying to do her own thing and move on. what do i do?I think I've lost the love of my life, and I really need advice?
Not much you can do. Sometimes trust can't be regained. Learn from it and don't repeat the same mistake next time.I think I've lost the love of my life, and I really need advice?
very hard winning back the trust that you have squandered...besides that you let your family's narrow minded opinions sway your opinion once and was not man enuff to handle it...so now you let her have her space and you can finish growing up and become a man...
you need to do some totally romantic, something she would love and has always dreamed of. But you did lie, and she may never forgive you...if its mean to be you guys will get back together.


and im sure there is something more than that..you don't normally break up with someone just for that reason.
i do have an idea what you are going through but you need to move on i know it can be hard and it will be better for your mental health this **** can drive a man insane if it was ment to be then someday you and her will get back together it may not be next week or next year but dont wait on her you have to move on with your life
You should do the same as she is because you were not strong enough to let your feelings for her be more important than the way others felt that's why you had mixed feelings about her.

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