Any advice on my social life?

My friends rarely if at all want to hang out with me any more. I don't even have many friends but the ones I do have seem to be my friends only because they take pity on me. My best friend said he would call me about 3 days ago to make plans for this spring break. When ever I'm at school I feel unsafe and torchered inside because I'm so self conscious and filled with panic. Through out my whole life my relationships have been, at the very least, declining gradually. All I want is a sense of comradeship but it seems like there's something holding people back from liking me. Please help me, this whole business is making me very sad.Any advice on my social life?
ahh, I'm going through this right now as well. rather than pity myself at schoo,, i try to keep busy, getting all my work out of the way, writing some poems, reading some books, ect.Any advice on my social life?
Even with the best of intentions, we spend more time with people who make us feel good than who make us feel bad. Polyannas get all the social connections and you and I spend a lot of time in social networks like this one.





My advice is develop a sense of humor. Sardonic remarks can express your angst and give people a laugh at the same time. Sarcasm is one of the greatest social lubricants ever invented so long as you pick your targets with care. Good Luck, or at least better luck than me. (that was an example of sardonic humor, in case you didn't notice [that was another one!])
If you learn to love yourself for who you are first then others will come around. Chasing after people will only make them run away. When you are happy with yourself you will attract true friends. Most ';friends'; are fake and a person really only has a few true friends. Discover yourself, your likes and dislikes, be nice to yourself, spoil youself a little and things will look brighter.
The answer is not to be liked, but to find yourself and quit caring what others think. You are letting other people control your life.