NEED ADVICE / HELP WITH SEX LIFE.......?

i dont want any stupid answers. this is serious.so if you want to write stupid comments then dont bother. recently iv been having a serious relationship with a beautiful young women. shes great and i feel like i could spend the rest of my life with her. the only problem is it hurts her during sex. i know some people say bigger is better but i cant see it being the case for me. i have always been freakishly ';well endowed'; and felt proud.. but when i found it hurts her i was saddened. i dont want to hurt her. does anyone have any ideas or suggestions on what i can do? does it become a little ';easier'; for girls over time? everyone says to take it slow but its not just the problem of taking it slow, its also the problem of trying to fit the thing in.





and no, i am not going to go into any details of how long or thick it is so dont even ask. i get enough of it at work. thanksNEED ADVICE / HELP WITH SEX LIFE.......?
I know this might sounds weird, and a bit uncomfortable but i this could work,





Why not try dildos? Try and bring it into oral sex and you use the dildo on her. then, as her vagina becomes more used to that size, try a bigger one and so on and so forth until she is more of a 'suitable size' for you!





You could make it sexy, it doesnt have to be strange and akward for you unless you make it that way. Just talk to her about it. If you let her practise with it when your not around and then if she is ok with it let you play with it with her.





Good luck! NEED ADVICE / HELP WITH SEX LIFE.......?
well if you do it for a while she should loosen up and it will be easier and more pleasurable for her,dont get sny sex toys,she prolly wont like it,or if oyur just rushing into it like actually penetrating her,dont do it right away,finger her for a little bit,go down on her,make her feel special and make her fuzzy and tingly all over,give her an orgasm b4 you put you thing in there,it will make her feel better,and then do it maybe that might help if she already got there,try it or not but i think it may help,


good luck!!