Life advice?

You know the more i think about it the more i start to believe my parents actually want to disown me. i mean i would disown me if i had to pay for even HALF of the **** that they pay for... for me. im expensive. and naughty. and dis respectful..but we cant all be that marsha brady type can we? no. thats ******* stupid. Im so sick of hearing my mother ***** about all the ';bad descions'; i make. How not doing this..or doing this is going to **** up my life.





Anyone reading this going....';what the **** is this about?'; let me explain...in my 18 years of exsistance i have cost my parents a very pretty penny..with totaling one..(possibly two now) cars...smoking underage, shoplifting, other various traffic violations, braces, corrective surgery for my damn back..and 14 years of repeated class fees, field trips and new school ****.....theres probally more..like the 20 bucks i borrowed for a concert here or there..but im not counting that. I need some foundation in my life. I dont believe in god. i used to. but whenever anything would go wrong in my life, i would balme ';god';. so i gave up the hop that there was something..or someone out there to help me.. so then i get all depressive because im seeking answers to questions that i need answers to. im seeking love, advice..and i never found it. a couple of my friends are really religious and when something does go wrong and im down.. they understand that i dont want to be told ';god';will have has his way of making this work out good for you. it really is bullshit. i respect their belifs and everything but its just not me. maybe someday that will change but that day..is not...today. As long as im venting i should say im really stressed out over the fact i may not have a car anymore. i was in an accident and quite possibly totaled my car. yay. you think my parents are going to get me a new one? no. in fact..they want me off their insurance plan. yay again. I have less than 35 days until i graduate..maybe ill get some answers of what it is exactly that im supposed to do with my life. I want to move out. so bad. SO BAD! my boyfriend opened his house to me. he is amazing guy. litterally my life saver. Im not sure how to bring this up to my mom/stepdad..well mom..shes going to be saddened and hurt that i dont want to live here anymore. but its suffocating me here. i get treated like im still 14. i need direction and i dont know where to get it. i need to be on my own for anwhile not having to listen to yelling everyday. being rudly awakend by some asshole who wants me to do chores at 630 in the moring..after ive been working all night. i know people out there have it worse than me i know that. im not saying there isnt..but it really feel like i have the **** end of the stick here. most kids my age would say ';**** YOU'; to thier parents and move thefuck out anyway not thinking twice about how his/her descions are affecting other people..i do consider it tho..THATS WHY IM STILL HERE! i vented enough for right now...expect another blog dometime soonish within the next week..week and half...if you want to give me adive or anything...feel free..











sorry for all grammatical errors and spelling mistakes.. im not going to go through and fix it this isnt a research paper...Life advice?
I think you'll do all right, you're head's screwed on nicely snug and you're no dumb cluck.


Gird your loins, though, '; it's gonna' be a bumpy ride';.Life advice?
I didnt even read the half of it and if I was your parents I would be sick of you. If you ask me your parents need to lay down the law and teach you a lesson.
I think you need a role model...





If your life had started with more discipline, maybe things would have turned out differently...


';You reap what you sow';
um no offense but the reason ur not going to get too many answers is because nobody is going to bother reading all of it


incliding me


sorry
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If your going to drink, don't get on yahoo, and type. Get out, and hoe bag like everybody else.
Chill out... Listen 2 your mom but still know right from wrong..
WOW your life seems pretty messed up maybe u need peers to help you through that here email me michelleg_2008@yahoo.com so i can get the whole story
What is your question??
Should have thought twice, huh?
im not readin that!
Calm down.
wow...i don't think i want to touch this one!


I'm so SORRY!


GOOD LUCK my DEAR! keep the head up!
You should definately slow down. You are taking this way to far. Alot of people hate their parents. They really do. But they have to live with them, it's the rules. Your parents practically own you; not to work, just to live. It's like paying rent at a hotel, exept you really never can leave until youre 18. Do your parents hate you too? With this attitute, they might as well. Just stop judging them. Maybe they have a little advice for you too. If that doesn't work, just run away? Ever think of that? No, you've been too obsessed with the obvious. Have you ever tried making new friends? And if you really cared about your mom being saddened and hurt, why would you...ugh. Never mind. This is way too confusing for me...





Missa
well, you're eighteen, and you need to move away from your parents, even if they don't want to hear it. we can't stay with them forever, cause then - god help us - i'd end up exactly like my mom! egh! you're not expected to have your entire life figured out by now. and that's what high school is for, to **** up. because after we've graduated, it's a lot harder to get sympathy when we do mess up. who knows, though...maybe your mom/stepdad will loosen up after you graduate...but then again, maybe you should move in w/your bf...that'd be cool...and i agree, there isn't a god. too much bad **** happens for there to actually be someone who gives adamn.
Wow. I think your parents screwed up. They didn't teach you much respect, did they. They also didn't teach you responsibility.


It's okay if you don't believe in God, you're free to believe whatever you want. One day you'll figure it out. But you really shouldn't blame anyone else for the way you feel but yourself. You've got some growing up to do. Best wishes to you.
I didn't see a question in that, but the one thing that comes to mind is that shacking up with your boyfriend isn't such a super idea. Start focusing on becoming the person you want to be and not who your parents are. Your parents treat you like a kid because you ARE a kid.
Well it sounds like you already know the mistakes you have made in your life. You are quite right no one has the answers and you need guidance and direction in your life. You know that's half the battle. You are very young and guess what you have about another 75 years of mistakes to look forward to. Think of your future and do what's best for you as long as you don't hurt anyone else and use some common sense. Please don't drink and drive and hurt someone else that hasn't made the choices you have.
be responsible.


think about these two words. then think about your life.


then try to see what you can do to improve. you gotta think with an open mind. try to look at it from another person's perspective.





i think u need some time to urself and think
Maybe learn some respect for your parents, or move out of their house and stop taking their handouts.


Right now you just sound like a spoiled brat who should be kicked out of their parent's home and have everything their parents bought them taken away.


I would like to see you sleep in a tent in the woods for a week because you were homeless, and then see what you think about your parents paying for only half of your stuff when you don't even show them respect for what they do pay for.
Well i was just u once apon a time first criminal record at 10.


But my mum became a cristian and i fort it was a load of bollocks at first but one day i had to go. And i went and met these new friends that was the reason i went after that and then i felt god touching me and i started to believe in god.





I think you have so much troubles in life because you werent repenting and god was showing that something is wrong so he made your life harder and you kept blaming him so now you have sunk lower give God another chance in your life and make it a good one. Pray to him everyday go to church once a week, and try to be the best possible person in life.





No wonder Christanity is the most common religion and its in everypart in the world unlike most religions.





After i was saved by god i tried harder in life and i got a good job and made a hell of alot new friends. And from then on i've enjoyed life.





So i suggest Put god back in your life, dont you think there was a reason for you being a christian in the first place and then your life suddenly falling apart by crimes. Its not a concindence its god telling you, your not bringing him in your life again.
My brother sounds just like you, and he never believed in god and doesn't want to believe in god, so I'm not sure what your religious indecision has to do with your bad choices. What I do know is that I am the one to whom my parents have to come to to vent about their ungrateful son who is constantly needing to be bailed out and not appreciating it, and they are on the verge of moving to the country to get away from him. I know that you say that they treat you like a child etc. etc. but I also know that my brother says my parents never do anything for him and this is just a bald lie. What people think doesn't always correlate with the facts. Perhaps you need to take a closer look at the stress you have put your parents through and appreciate all the time and love and money they have invested in you and take some time out to thank them and apologise. Parents get upset too. I'm the one my Mum cries on when my brother is just too much to take, and it is quite hurtful when children can't see what their parents have done for them.





This is not to say you shouldn't move out - but moving out is a totally separate issue. It is expected that when you grow up you will move out, so I don't see why this should be an issue. If you are ready to take that step with your boyfriend, then do so. But moving in with your boyfriend to get away from your parents is the wrong decision - the fact that you cannot live with your parents doesn't automatically mean you are capable of living with your bf and making the relationship work. However, as a side benefit, you may find your relationship with your parents improves when you are not living in each others pockets - although this is not always true.
I'm pretty much in the same spot you're in. I can't say I'm any better or any worse, but I can say that there's barely anything different between us.





Life is lost for most people like us and the only thing I've known to do is pretend like there's something there in us. Pretending sucks, but soon there will be something there that isn't fake and it'll take awhile but you have to work hard. All I can say is that the only way we learn is when we get into deep **** that forces us to understand. I realized it the hard way and all I can say is that you should learn that everything could be worse. I've learn to be more laidback because I accepted that everything happens for a reason and that we still have to put effort into it. Living with either your parents or your boyfriend is honestly your choice, but getting something like a job will help you get your mind of some things in your life. Working sucks, but you'll learn more off having something responsible like that.





Better yourself by believing that you are better than what you are. Figure out that people may not accept you for whatever reason there is, but the fact that it's more important for you to accept yourself first.





Let time go by as you slowly work yourself to be better. It wont all come at once.





That's all I can say... You may think I'm dumb... But I hope this helps...
hmmmm......





I have a 5 year old.... and i am 22- ( yeah that made me 16 - i dont need any comments on that thanks people )





I put him through catholic school.... and buy him everything.... wanna talk spoiled, you've never met my son.. he possibly owns the entire boy section of toysrus.





However.... my point is.... no matter how bad you think your parents feel about you- it's not like that.. and I've noticed it being a parent myself now....





I was a teen mom... my parents weren't mad at me they didn't disown me, they were disappointed, but that didn't change how they felt about me... they gave me pointers and let me live my life....





Go to college..... find a good job.... show you can handle your own...





I will never regret doing anything i have done, or will do for my son... because i know one day he will learn from it, and be a better person....





The car issue.... welll..... i got my own cars.... and own insurance plan.... i actually bought a new car 2 years ago.. and things are going well.....





Just when you think everything is going downhill, something will change... finish school..... try your best... and don't let anything stop you.