Ex girlfriend is in my life, can't move on. Any advice?

The problem I have with my ex-girlfriend is our lives are so intertwined that I鈥檓 having trouble getting over her.





We broke up in January, and she wanted space, which I gave her since then. But she鈥檚 started to reappear in my life because we share the same friends and geographical location.





During our 鈥榞iving space鈥?period, she told me that after some time has passed things will be less awkward between us.


Has not turned out that way.





Saw her with friends for drinks the other night, and she was cold an aloof鈥?so when she showed up my evening became a pain in the a*s. I also get to see her getting hit on by a guy which is no fun for me to see.


Next week I have a birthday party鈥?she鈥檚 going to be there also.





I seem to have a bunch of choices.





Leave town and start fresh, or make an announcement to my friends that I can no longer be in the same room as my ex.





If I continue having her in my life, I'm gonna get all the emotional crap I鈥檒l probably have to deal with for who knows how long鈥?br>




Trying to repair things with my ex (whom I still love), is the best, but most difficult option to succeed with.





Can I have people鈥檚 opinions of my situation?Ex girlfriend is in my life, can't move on. Any advice?
if you BOTH do not communicate with one another...then, you suffer to keep moving forward. you take from another person that would love you and that you could love better if you did not hang on to the 'hope' of being with the other person. it is a false hope unless you communicate and find that they want the same as you.