im 16, and recently been getting upset thinking about my future. i am bisexual but have not come out and don't want to, i think my dad would disown me if he new! i have been bullied right through high school for talking like a girl, i hate my sexuality, i would anything to change it! i get so miserable sometimes thinking about my future , will the bullying carry on, and i don't want to be bisexual! i don't want a boyfriend i want a girlfriend. what should i do to cheer myself up? i am applying for college soon and i am dreading getting bullied there. HELP PLEASE!Im not happy with my life? has any one got any advice?
The secret to life is inner peace or should i say inner happiness. be yourself at all times, that way, you dont have to worry about people. no matter where you go people will always try to control you. dont let people shape your life. your life the way you want it to be. you are who you are no matter what they say. so be yourself. what most people dont realise is that life is very very short. you never know when you are going to die. it could be overnight or on your way to work. so life is too short to worry about what people say. live your life. i learned that the hard way, so i hope you wont learn that the hard way too. you do whatever you want to do with your life but be sure that you dont waste your life over unimportant things. you are still young and have a future ahead of yourself. that goes for the bullying and your future.as for the bisexual part, only you can sort that one. i cant help you to not be bisexual by restraining that and i cant help you to be straight. ONLY you can choose what you want to be and help yourself to do so. people can introduce you to a million hot ladies, and you can fall for them all but that bisexual part of yourself will always be there somewhere unless you yourself get rid of it if you dont want it. its up to you !!!!! im sure you'll make the right choice for yourself. i hope i was of great help!! goodluck!!Im not happy with my life? has any one got any advice?
Aww don't beat your self up be proud of who you are no matter what sexuality you are! If people are bullying then tell them to **** off!
If they're too narrow minded and iggnorant to accept who you are then they will have serious issues in their future life.
People should be more mature in college so you wont necessarily get bullied there too. I would suggest some proper counselling either through your doctor or the college. Make the effort to make friends at college - say hi to people, join clubs etc. Don't be afraid to be yourself.
Aw i feel for you, 1st thing bully's are worse than you there low life's who like to make peoples life's hell, i was bullied all the way through high school for 5 years and i hated it i dealt with it though, its knocked my confidence to 0. I don't see why you're dad would disown you because you bi-sexual its part of life, you don't have to come out yet if at all do it when you feel ready, don't be worried about college at All i felt like this when i started thinking it would be the same as school and id get bullied but i was sooo wrong, trust me there so more mature in college, and there more that likely to take you as you are. i hope things get better for you :)
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