Saturday, August 21, 2010

I'm 15 and Could life get any worse? I need advice and help! Anything will do?!?!?

I;m alone in the world, or so i feel! Everything makes me cry, even the smallest thing. I feel as though everything my friends say to me is a lie, and that they lie to get out of hanging with me. They never call me unless they want something. They talk to me at school, but not usually outside of school. I can't tell if they like me or not!?!?!





I feel as though my family hates me, even though they have assured me they don't!





My life sucks, I'm always depressed, I rarely smile, everything brings me down. I sometimes think of death, though i would never under any circumstance hurt, or kill myself!





I don't know what to do anymore, i don't know what to believe anymore, i don't know what the point of living is anymore!!





Help me...any advice on friends! Life! depression! Family! Anything, just to help me!I'm 15 and Could life get any worse? I need advice and help! Anything will do?!?!?
The Lord is my shepherd,


I shall not want;


He makes me lie down in green pastures.


He leads me beside still waters;


He restores my soul.


He leads me in paths of righteousness


for His name's sake.





Even though I walk through the valley


of the shadow of death,


I fear no evil;


for You are with me;


Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.





Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me


all the days of my life;


and I shall dwell in the house of the


Lord forever.





Psalm 23





reading my bible always makes me feel better. remember jesus always cares and im not saying this in a joking way... ill pray for youI'm 15 and Could life get any worse? I need advice and help! Anything will do?!?!?
I think you're just fifteen. Life sucks when you're fifteen. If you still feel depressed after a few months, go see a doctor.








Life gets easier, I promise. Right now it feels like everything is just bearing down on you and it's suffocating, but you'll learn how to breathe.
I totally understand. I was the same way when I was a teenager. I have to say there are even times now when I feel like that. There are contributing factors that you just need to figure out what they are. If you want to talk, email me. ameeraterry@yahoo.com
your just a teenager thats all things will get better everyone goes through this i did on top of having 3 close relatives die and my dad had a heart attack.


things get better calm down!
I think you just need someone to talk to.. I am/went through the same exact thing. In fact I kind of still feel the same way. If you want to talk message me!
Talk to your parents about counseling. It sounds like you have severe self esteem issues along with depression and anxiety. You may need meds. Don't fret about it-it's OK.


It's hard being a teenager-especially a girl. Our hormones mess with us big time.


As far as your friends go, they are most likely feeling much the same way as you. They doubt if everyone is really their friend too. It's part of growing up.


It's good that you've talked to your family and that they are being supportive. You're blessed in that regard.


Please don't give up. Help is out there. There are also message boards online that deal with depression. This is a link to a great one. http://www.depressionforums.org/
Hey there,





I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone, I sort of felt the same way when I was your age or a little bit older. It's easy to say, but you need to not let your friends get to you because it seems like they are the main issue of why you are feeling so badly about yourself.





Just go to school and do your thing. Time goes by so fast when your in high school you will be done before you know it. There is so much more out there in the world. I suggest that you try to join something outside of school like a yoga class or something that interests you where you can meet new people. Maybe look for a part-time job or something. You are only 15 and honestly you have a lot of exiciting times ahead of you. You just need a little motivation I think.
You just need to realize almost everyone was in your boat a when they were your age. I have felt that life was over at 14-15-16 yrs old heck all of the teen years actually..lol Just focus on what kinda person you are going to become and how the friends in high school will not mean **** to you later on in life. HIgh school was MY LIFE.. it is yours now but soon it will be gone and forgotten and life will be better because you will be able to look at things in a different light when your older. It will be okay i promise! That's why when i hear of teen suicide it breaks my heart because if they would have just toughed it out life would have gotten better..
Everything is temporary. Remeber that. I bet you haven;t thought of this, but it makes alot of sense, you are at an age where your hormones are raging (not always necessarily just sexual) and the real world is setting in. Don't depend on other people to be happy. Find things that you are happy about doing even if it is by yourself, when you are happy with who you are, you will find that others cannot make you happy or sqad. No one is happy all the time. Volunteer or do something for others. Only you can build up your self worth.

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