Any advice on my social life?

My friends rarely if at all want to hang out with me any more. I don't even have many friends but the ones I do have seem to be my friends only because they take pity on me. My best friend said he would call me about 3 days ago to make plans for this spring break. When ever I'm at school I feel unsafe and torchered inside because I'm so self conscious and filled with panic. Through out my whole life my relationships have been, at the very least, declining gradually. All I want is a sense of comradeship but it seems like there's something holding people back from liking me. Please help me, this whole business is making me very sad.Any advice on my social life?
Maybe your sense of panic and anxiety are sending people the wrong vibe. Maybe they feel you don't want to be around them, or you have too much stress in your life to do any social activities with your friends. Maybe try to talk to a professional and see if you can work through your anxiety.Any advice on my social life?
Maybe you should ask them if you've done something wrong or hurtful to them?! Idk that is a toughie but I would just ask them and see why they are acting this way. Maybe you should make some new friends that will help you with your insecurities and panic. I have a very self conscious friend and I know I can help her and it makes me feel like the greatest friend in the world!
honestly, have a beer. then maybe youll be a little less self-coincess and more likely to open up to people. you probably arent showing them your best qualities, or are trying to hang out with a crowd thats not you.
be out going....hell i'll be ur friend lol
you need to get out there start asking ur friends to go places they like an you to then you guys can have fun an don't be scared just be u an all that u want trust me i no
First of all, if you are sad, NEVER show it when you're hanging out with people. People don't like people that are sad or depressed all the time. I know it annoys me. Even if you're upset smile. Laugh. Be fun and enjoyable. That's what people want as a friend.





Also, even if your self-concious, try not to show it. You'll make more friends if people see that you're comfortable with yourself. And don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Don't try to get people to like you. Be the one that people want to be friends with.





I was just like you before. But, once I started to put myself out there, I came out of my shell and made a lot more friends. It may be hard at first (it was for me) and you may get a lot of weird looks and responses that you may not want, but sooner or later it'll come through for you. =)