I love elephants so much. One of my dreams is to open an elephant sanctuary in africa or asia or something for wild elephants that are hurt due to poaching and things like that. this would obbviously cost a TON of money. i really want to become an author and write a book that will be popular enough to make me a millionaire. its a long shot, but i'm determined. or i plan to marry a millionaire. Any advice or tips of any sort would be appriciated. thank you very much.
ps- i also didn't know what catogory to put this under, so sorry if i'm totally wrong about that!!!!!!!Some advice on acheiving one of my life goals?!?!!?
Knowing nothing about you ,it's a bit hard to tell you something specific for you. But judging what you say between the lines I'll do my best to help you.
The existence of a very strong desire to reach the outcome is essential. You have to want it badly. Very useful is a critical absence of something that make you want it even harder, like, a common example, having no money to pay the need. A strong urge gets things moving.
If you don’t have this strong need, create it artificially. There a many ways to do this. Behind every need is an urge. Just intensify this urge. If you want to be rich, tell all your friend that you’re soon going to marry a millionaire, for example.. You get the point.
Make a plan
Take a pen and paper and write out some ideas about what you really want and why. Take your time.
I believe that the writing process is a good way to sort out your thoughts and help you to concretize your true wishes. This allows you also to evaluate them objectively. The better you define your goal, the faster you will achieve it.
Now the important part: set an ultimate date on when you plan to achieve your goal. Be realistic here. Most people overestimate what they can do in two months but underestimate what they can achieve in two years.
Just write down a date, develop one powerful declarative sentence and post it all over your place.
Don’t take this lightly, for this is a very important step.
Take out pen and paper again, and this time write down what fears and obstacles you would expect. Don’t think much about it just write them down one below the other. Ask yourself the following questions: What may prevent me from success? What fears may come up? What or who may get in my way? Write it down!
After you have made the list go down every point separately and write a possible solution directly beneath it.
Being aware of those fears and obstacles and their overcoming takes out their power. Since you then recognize them, you can immediately oppose them, and eventually they may turn out to be powerless in the beginning.
Go to a place of quit and bring yourself into a relaxing position. Close your eyes. I want you to get in a state of deep relaxation. Now visualize that you’ve already reached your goal. Image it in much detail as possible. Feel it. Enjoy it, be happy that you finally succeeded. Not only see in your mind, but feel, hear, smell. Make it as realistic as possible. Do this for at least 15 minutes in the morning after waking up and in the evening before you go to bed.
I know this is not easy in the beginning, but when you do this disciplined every day, you will get faster into relaxation and the images will come bluster out.
Now, I want you to take 10 minutes of your lunch time, sit down and write affirmations. Write down your goal that you’ve defined in step one in one statement. Keep it positive and in the present. Don’t write: “I will be rich one day”. Write instead: “I am rich and prosperous”. Don’t write: “Someday I will meet this wonderful guy”. Write: “I’m married to a wonderful man who loves me madly”.
Write your affirmation 25 times every day on lunchtime.
This is a very powerful tool, it’s the heart and soul of the five steps.
With this method I bought an apartament having zero dollar in my pocket 20 years ago
After you have done step three for a week, your mind will come up with ideas of a plan how to accomplish your goal. Put it on paper. Here again go into detail. Don’t just write:
Take out the list from step one again, take a look at your ultimate achievement-date and work out an exact timetable. Again: be as accurate and detailed as you can be.
n the end will have a fully detailed agenda on how to reach your goal.
You should have by now: a strong desire and willingness to achieve what you want, you know exactly what you want, you know the obstacles and how to combat them, you have the secret tool of making things happen, and finally you have a precise agenda on how to act every single day until the achievement of the objective.
Now put it into action. You have done a great job so far, but if you don’t act, it was all for nothing. Should you loose motivation, increase your desire, should you encounter fears, fight them (you know how). The visualization and affirmation process will make it easy for you. Trust me on this one.
That’s it! Easy, isn’t it?
Have you learned to detach yourself from negative people? Good
Have you learned something from my suggestions? Good and thank you .You made me happy.
Start apply right nowSome advice on acheiving one of my life goals?!?!!?
Start working with what you have at hand. The rest will be added unto you.
Do not give up no matter what comes in you're way. Always try your best and be patient with every defficulty that might in your way/
^_^ having life goals is a good way to start onto a path...
1) let's start wit the books first...think of what interests you..what kind of books you like to read...generes..categories...the type of books you like is probably the type of books u mite write...also think of storylines, plots..etc
2) research into where, when, how, how much, how big, and the plans for the sanctuary...(btw, I think it's nice how you want to build a santuary for elephant, it's very thoughtful of you)
3) marrying a millionarire... well, i think u hav 2 get know who millionaires are first...get them to notice you...in their point of view, u hav to be different, creative, special to get noticed, in their eyes, why should they talk to you...what have you got to offer to them...so, get yourself noticed! ^_^
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