Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Am very board with my life & tired o my life i just don't know how to handle my self...please advice.?

am in my late 20's but am having so many problems in financial, personal life, family and i just don't know how to handle it. am getting really very tired of life. i just need some good advice and if can any ideas how should i handle all those...:-)Am very board with my life %26amp; tired o my life i just don't know how to handle my self...please advice.?
I'm having the same problem. when life get's boring, it just means your running the same old routine everyday. You have to find a way to change it up a little bit.





First think of what you really want out of life. Go back to college if you stopped going because you got tired of that too. Do your best to reach your goals and discover new things. Don't just let your some routine be the same all the time. Switch it up! spend some time alone, get in thouch with yourself.





My passion is dance. When im in a dance class, i always look forward to the days i get to go and dance. so get involved with something you can look forward too, something that excites you. you'll be much happier i promise!Am very board with my life %26amp; tired o my life i just don't know how to handle my self...please advice.?
give yourself a purpose. do you want to see change in the world? make it happen. Don't give your heart to Jesus Christ
It is time to take a vacation to get away and sort this out. Go to the ocean alone and walk the beach. Pray and meditate and God will show you the way. Trust in God.
You need someone to love and someone who loves you... You can only care when you have support. You can get the great job, the great place to live, but without true love or what you think is true, you are just treading water in this life.





If you are loved, then you need to reanalyze why you feel something is missing. Make sure that those who love you know how you feel and that will help you... talk to them and let them tell you they support and need you.





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And sorry, November Rain is a robot if she thinks that something that is NOT Earthbound and wouldn't have the slightest clue about being human could help you....
turn it over 2 God


I have the same problems as you and God brought me a sense of peace tonight through many fine people on this very site.
dont give your heart and life to jesus christ thats a waste of time. do it for yourself
november rain deserves best answer. she hit the nail right on the head.
Well, try watching the news or looking at pictures of poverty, war sticken places. Abused children. You know, super depressing things where people have it worse.





Might put a perspective on life a little for you.





Read a book, volenteer.
take a vaction with your favorite person. relax and dont think about anythin but having a good time. it should help clear your mind and re think what you find important. then list your problems and your goals and try to fix one at a time. dont overwhelm yourself. i personally take yoga, it does wonderers. and once you start fixing things you start to feel better you get on a roll. try a new job. maybe a part time gig just for fun. work at a coffee shop or a bar. get adventerous and try rock climbing or hiking! people spend over half their time doing things they dont enjoy (chores, work, etc) so take a break and do what makes you happy without worrying about everyone else. your life is about YOU remember that.
god will never give us problems that we cannot solve.. everythng has a solution. that's the way of god to let us know the meaning of life.. think wisely.. it is only your mind who say u coudnt handle your life anymore but actually you can. just give yourself a break.. do not do nothing im sure you'll regret it all.. do things with all your heart.. god bless
Ick, welcome to the ';new puberty'; LOL I swear I think we have more angst as late 20s/early 30s than we did in junior high! I can relate to your feelings but I don't have any major ideas for you. Are you married? Kids? If not, or if you have help and support, what about changing careers or going back to school to do something else. That can change your financial situation as well as your happiness level. I don't know if you don't see enough of your family or if you see too much of them but try to do the opposite of whatever it is like now (unless they annoy you in which case just try to find something to replace that facet of your life...) I think around 30 is kind of hard b/c the excitement of adolesence/young adulthood is over and you are in the ';grind'; and you realize ';OMG, I have like another 30+ years of THIS.';
When all of those things become bad you would feel that you are living the worst moment of your life and probably it is but don't just think about you can't handle it. Probably you cant handle all of these problems at the same time but you can one by one. You are only 20yr, think about how long you can spend to solve these problems, probably more than 30 yrs, so don't rush just take your time and try to enjoy your life every time you can. However you don't have to solve all of your problems, remember that life is interesting because we always keep solving problems so take all your time.
give your heart and life to Jesus Christ
wake up! look - I mean really look around you - life is facinating and beautiful - you can find joy in the smallest of things - stop worrying about your problems and enjoy life NOW!

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