Need advice............matter of my life?? please?

It is a situation where it is has screwed me totally. I met this girl a few months ago. Fell in love and everything was ok. Then came the problem. Her parents hate me, her sibling hate's me and now it is affecting us. Her sister claims to have had a history with me which is crap as we were always friends and her parents think im taking their daughter for a ride. My girl has decided to end things since it is not working out and to be honest i dont know what to do. She and I just cant find a solution. She talking to her parents is not working. Is there a way I can change the situation. Please help!!!Need advice............matter of my life?? please?
family is a huge deal.. altho they tend to get in the way a lot, and u find yourself arguin over her mom, says this that? blah blah..


tell her exactly how you feel, if u want this girl bite the bullet suck it up, confront her family let them know she is your world if u have to prove it to them, whatever it takes to keep your lady. and the harder u work to get her affection and her families if thats what u have to, the more impressed she will be. :) good luck!Need advice............matter of my life?? please?
u have not mentioned your age. what is your profession -u have not written. young guys like u are prone to invite such problems and when trapped , dont find a way out. young man. u r not acceptable to the family of the girl. what is the reaction of your family - u have not mentioned .the girl also thinks that it is better to end the episode. so, it is finished. there is no point in continuing. it is better to forget her. innitially it will be painful to u but the time heals all wounds.
Unless you and the girl you speak of are independent (have your own home, jobs, etc), it's kind of hard to get away from the situation all together. You girl is probably under enormous pressure if she's living with her parents. No girl is worth dying for unless she's family or someone who sticks with you regardless of what happens. Move on...you will hurt for awhile but there IS someone out there without all the problems who will be able to love you freely. Good luck
If you truly love her then you should explain to her and her parents that you are serious about her and that there's nothing going on with her sister. It will need time, honesty, patience and love.
You need a go-between.





It sounds to me that there is some history on her side that you are unaware of. I can't be sure of that, of course, but they are certainly overreacting to the situation you describe. Or is it that you're not telling us everything about yourself?





Could her sister want you for herself and she's told her parents something horrible about you?





Why do her parents hate you? What's made her sister say that?





If you want to convince her parents then you must be a 'good' person and make sure her parents know about it. That's where your go-between comes in.





You need to systematically remove their objections to you, one by one, and they need to know it.





If she's everything you say, she's worth waiting for, and, what's more, she'll wait for you. If not, you have been chasing something impossible and you have to face up to that.





Try to keep positive. Good luck.
try talking to her family. they should at least give you a reason why they dislike you.