Wednesday, August 18, 2010

I feel like there is something missing in my life. Any advice?

Hi. Im Madison.. i am 16 years old. =)


Ok well, i feel like there is something missing in my life. I go to church and everything, so dont say its just becasue i need god..but over the past 5 months or so i thought that i could fill that emptyness with feelings for guys..since that thought i have had sex with 8 boys for my high school. Please dont call me a slut, thats not what i need to hear. That only made things worse, my heart is broken.. i feel sad all the time. I talk to my youth leader about it and he will pray with me about all of this, but i still feel like there is something missing. I cant sleep at night sometimes..i just lay there wondering what i am doing wrong that makes me feel like this. does anyone have advice? maybe i need someone to talk to. I have no ';girl'; friends..only guys. And my parents arent around much to notice that anything is wrong, or to be there for me. I feel miserable in my own life..I feel like there is something missing in my life. Any advice?
That ';missing'; part is what only God can fill, because He made every part of you for Himself. He wants all of you in a relationship through Jesus Christ, as Lord of your life, not on a part-time basis. I found out years ago that just going to church is not enough, nor is just quoting the Sinner's Prayer or getting counseling. I was miserable until I became more serious in my relationship with God. Sometimes He uses that unpleasant feeling to get our attention. People can't help you like He can.





The best breakthrough is when you get alone for as long as and as often as it takes, to ask God to deliver and help you to become the person He wants you to be. Turn away from all sin and negative influences and ask Him to forgive you. Talk to God about everything every day, and use scriptures when you pray. Prayer is hard work, but your life and eternity are at stake.





Daily read, meditate on, and obey His Word. Start with St. John, in an easy format. Attend Bible study regularly for understanding and make Christian friends. Forgive anyone who offended you.





You have to sincerely draw close to God, and when you do, He'll get close to you. He'll reveal Himself to you and bring real meaning to your life. He fulfills the desires of those who reverence and obey Him. The Lord has really turned my life around.I feel like there is something missing in my life. Any advice?
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8 boys Madison... I hope you used protection.


If you want a guy to like you, and not just use you for sex, you can't just give him what he wants without him proving to you he's the right one first, and that he's actually interested in you and not just that one thing you can do for him.


Have you ever heard the expression, ';Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free?';


People use to use this expression when it was more common for people to wait until after marriage for sex.





You're 16, you're hormones are going crazy, yer going to be feeling a lot of different things. Just save your body for the right guy. Because you don't want the right guy to come along and have him not want you because you earned a reputation as that ';S'; word.


Guys won't respect you if they think thats what you are.

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