Any Advice? something is missing in my life..?

Hi. Im Madison.. i am 16 years old. =)


Ok well, i feel like there is something missing in my life. I go to church and everything, so dont say its just becasue i need god..but over the past 5 months or so i thought that i could fill that emptyness with feelings for guys..since that thought i have had sex with 8 boys for my high school. Please dont call me a slut, thats not what i need to hear. That only made things worse, my heart is broken.. i feel sad all the time. I talk to my youth leader about it and he will pray with me about all of this, but i still feel like there is something missing. I cant sleep at night sometimes..i just lay there wondering what i am doing wrong that makes me feel like this. does anyone have advice? maybe i need someone to talk to. I have no ';girl'; friends..only guys. And my parents arent around much to notice that anything is wrong, or to be there for me. I feel miserable in my own life..Any Advice? something is missing in my life..?
Well for someone that is only 16 you have had way too many sexual partners. You are looking to fill your void with sex from some stupid high school boys? It's not going to work. It sounds like you need to go and talk to your mom and dad. If your parents are not an option then you need to talk to a close relative that you trust. If that also is not an option, then you should talk to one of your guy friends moms. You need to get help. You are headed for a bad road. High School is a horrible time for girls. I'm sure your youth group leader tries to help, but maybe you can ask him/her if the church provides any counseling to young adults. I had a friend that had some issues during high school and her church provided counseling for her.


Talk to an ADULT!





Good Luck, life will get better, just stop sleeping around with anyone that shows interest in you. They don't really like you, they probably heard from their friends that you'll screw them!Any Advice? something is missing in my life..?
Get involved in missions with your church. Serving others in desperate need has an amazing way of reshaping your heart.


Sounds like you need to forgive yourself... God already has. Sex without intimacy will leave an even bigger gap in your spirit and heart. Volunteer to read to the elderly at your local hospital, get a puppy (they have an great capacity to love), and exercise.





It is amazing how things change when you do not give yourself TIME to rethink things over and over.





Also, maybe see a doctor... it could simply be a hormone imbalance.