Need some advice and Stories about life after Miscarriage??? and TTC??? PLS help?

Ok..miscarried my 1st baby over 1 week ago, and going to start trying 4 a baby tonight..lol (tmi?)


I was about 6 weeks when i found out, just started to get excited..


And WHAM i had a miscarriage..


I have since then been pushing my partner emotionall y and physically away, I have been moping around in a bad mood ever since..


I just feel really bad and sorry 4 myself..


I cant seem to get happy, im only 22 and wasnt even planing a family till i fell pregnant, now its all i think about..


Just need some advice/stories to cheer me up..


ThanksNeed some advice and Stories about life after Miscarriage??? and TTC??? PLS help?
hey im in the same boat...i just had a miscarraige...and it was horrible...im young too but u know i have a career and i really want children...i lost my angel on jan 27th....i will start trying as soon as my hcg level goes back down...


ALWAys have hope and listen to your heart and believe me when i say


take atleast 2 doctors advice...some dont care and just say what they want....midwife clinics i have just started going to are so nice and personal and same price as an obgyn plus they have a obgyn on call....


dont pressure ur partner but let things happend...if u stress abt it..it will take longer...


if u want to talk..email me...i would love to share info b.c i had two earli m/c..one recent and the other last year...


take care byee and good luck.Need some advice and Stories about life after Miscarriage??? and TTC??? PLS help?
I had a miscarriage at about 5weeks 10 months ago...I felt the same as you did - sad %26amp; angry, physically %26amp; emotionally drained %26amp; didn't want any contact with any one....I found a really good site lamsupport.org, which helped me out alot, even if you don't want to join go %26amp; read some stories...


My advice to you would be to go to the doctor if you haven't already %26amp; have a check up. Make sure that everything was passed when you miscarried so it doesn't cause any further problems...I think my saving grace was that we didn't TTC right away - we waited 3 months %26amp; then it took us 3 months to fall. Your body will let you know when it is ready for another pregnancy. Try to focus on the things that you have %26amp; that are important to you %26amp; when %26amp; if you decide to TTC asap, don't get too upset or obsessed if you don't get a positive right away...Finally, just have some fun %26amp; enjoy your partner, he maybe hurting just as bad as you....


Now I'm 21weeks pg with our first baby %26amp; it is nerve wracking but so worth every minute of it....I wish you lots of luck %26amp; I hope that you are successful soon! (sorry for rambling)
im also ur age and last year i had a m/c after 2 and half months. fetus had just stopped growing. doc said it was normal and not to think about it but of course i think about it all the time! im on my 2nd round of clomid now and am hopeful that it will happen to me now.


i know u cant stop thinking about it but just try and be happy. take ur pre natals, drink lots of water and talk about what ur feeling with ur husband or even us. i know yahoo answers helped me alot!


good luck
Please don't start trying for a baby yet - most docs want at least one normal period before conceiving again. In may case, it took 7 weeks for my HcG levels to return to normal - so keep your doctor's appts. and labwork on schedule. Trying again when you are still so sad can be very emotionally taxing - because than sex is not for fun, it is to make a baby, and if you don't get pregnant right away, sex will feel like a chore and a failure.





Please work on getting yourself emotionally healthy again - reach a point of happiness, then ttc. As far as getting over miscarriage, I still sometimes think how my life would be different right now with my baby, even though I mc/d just over one year ago.
awww i am so sorry for you. Keep you head up this feeling will pass. And yes there is life after miscarriage. I had 2 m/c then i got pregnant again and i was so excited but scared to death that i might m/c again so i dint even tell any one about it till i was in my 2nd trimester. after that i was so excited. and now i have a beautiful 2 year old girl who is the light of my life.


good luck and god bless