I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE AND HELP on my life on what i should do. GOT REALLY DRUNK yesterday and stuff happend!!!?

Ok the story i'am about to tell you has kinda changed my life..if i should live in my house or not. Becuase things are getitng really bad. First of all let me just tell you i'am a 20 year old guy and i'am paksitani so my culture and religon is very strict.


I went out yesterday and got really drunk . This guy helped me home. I came home around like 4 am. My parents were really mad. well my mom just started to cry. My dad was acting so crazy. He was trying to fight me. He spit on me and then he hit me with a shoe many times while i was drunk. Then he hit me on my left ear and since yesterday i have like 90% hearing loss. I can't hear much from my left ear. and it really hurt. I woke up today and i found so many scracthes on my arm which my dad did. and i'am not trying to act like a baby or anything but it really hurt. Now my question is do u guys think i should move out. and do u think he should have done this becuase i drank?


I';am thinking about moving out and getting my own place and my own life. But then again if i do, there gonna think i hate them and they will never talk to me again . My dad said if you wanna move , then go but you will never ever come in my house again and i wil never ever talk to you. You will be disowned. So i don't know what to do. I mean i do wanna move out but at the same time i can't becuase they're gonna disown me. I mean guys i want some freedom in my life. My parents give me a curfue until 7 pm every single day. It sucks. They don't let me have my own group of freinds. Just tell me what i should do becuase sometimes my parents get on my nerves alot. Do this and do thatt and its making me CRAZY ..seriously. just any advice would be helpful. I feel like a bird in a cage.I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE AND HELP on my life on what i should do. GOT REALLY DRUNK yesterday and stuff happend!!!?
regardless of your parents religion, you shouldn't be coming home drunk at 4 in the morning!! yeah, i think they have the right to be mad. your dad shouldn't have attacked you i think he got pretty carried away. guess he thought he should knock some sense into you! it's their house with their rules. you should apologize and behave till you're on your own.I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE AND HELP on my life on what i should do. GOT REALLY DRUNK yesterday and stuff happend!!!?
your parents DEFINITELY overreacted..


i think you should move out.


i know that would be pretty hard though..


jeeze! i can't believe your parents said they would disown you!


i'm sorry.


:(
i agree that you should not have been coming home drunk at four in the morning... that may be why they dont want you to have you're own group of friends!


but at the same time, having a 7 pm curfew is ridiculous, especially when you're twenty. I'm still in high school and have a later curfew!


point is, if you're that unnerved about all of these restrictions your parents are applying, you should decide whether moving out is a good option.





however, before doing anything rash I would talk to your parents with a level head because you don't want to ruin your relationship for a very long time...
Your father's reaction aside. If you are not willing to live the lifestyle your parents expect you to, then it is 'time to find a place of your own. There is something to the old threat...';If you are going to live uner my roof, you'll live by my rules.'; It is simple respect.