Please help i need serious advice from women with life experience! ?

ok i don't even know where to start but im seven months pregnant and my boyfriend just up and left me last week. he left because he says he cant take me not being able to trust him anymore. basically he says i question him all the time and make him feel as though i don't trust him. well the straw that broke the Camel's back was that i questioned him about leaving work early (but in actuality he was at his grandparents house) i feel bad about it now but there's nothing i can do about it now. we have only been together for almost 2 years now but we have been best friends since Junior high school. he is a good man he cooks he cleans he does anything i ask of him. now my ? is will he come back? and what should i do from here?Please help i need serious advice from women with life experience! ?
I can only think that if he is a good man, he has communicated with you before about your not trusting and your accusing him....I can think he did not just up and leave....





This is the time you need to take a hard look at yourself, how you do or do not communicate, your style of communcation...and I'd counsel some good books to read or to find a marriage and family therapist.





This is not about him...this is all about you.....Will he come back...will you change? are you ready to admit you have crossed boundaries and territories?Please help i need serious advice from women with life experience! ?
The truth you are a ball of raging hormones and you are irrational and you realize this All Pregnant women have to deal with that to some extent you just took it to far!


Tell him in 2 month it'll all be over but that you love him and need him right now more then ever!


Don't sit by the phone waiting for him to come to you Go to him You screwed up so now you have to try and fix it
hang in there, he's is the father to your unborn child.. if is half the man you say he is then he will come back. and when he comes back.. STOP all the questioning. trust him. you will need to be able to trust him if you two are going to raise a child together. you both need to put the past behind you and move on with your new family! wish you the best of luck.
I have been married over 25yrs and have always been the suspicious type. He may come back because you two will have a child together. Anytime you want to question something, just swallow your desire to ask. As long as he is treating you well, you have to assume that you are important to him and that he therefore is being faithful. The problem is actually yours, not his.
He should. Tell him your sorry and blame it on hormones and then think before you speak. Try not to ask where he's been, who he's been with, he will end up telling you eventaly.


If he doesn't then he was just looking for an excuse to go.
You should blame your hormones! Say that you've been questioning him because of the stress and hormones of having a baby.
If you tell him how much you need him and care for him he might take you back. FYI pregnancy makes you moody what does he expect!!!
idk if he wuill come bacxk but just keep holding on go to ur mom or best friend for advice
talk to him about it! if u love each other, he'll come back
You need to get to the root of the issue of WHY you are always questioning him. Talk to him and say that you realize you have an issue and you want to try to work on it. HOWEVER! He needs to help you work on this problem as well.





Questions to ask yourself....


Did you have a relationship in the past that someone lied to you constantly?


Did you get cheated on by someone you deeply loved?


Did your parents act like this? Were they always in your business?


Are you insecure about things and need reassurance?





These things can contribute to the behavior of always being wary or insecure.





Questions you should get to know from him (You may know them)...


Is he very independent?


Is he much older than you?


Was he in a past relationship with someone who was overly clingy?





These could cause the need to not want to share. If you guys want to keep the baby and he is still expressing interest in being there you two NEED to work it out. Otherwise the child will be born into a broken family. Get a moderator if you feel the need, someone who is neutral territory. Not a family member, perhaps a mutual friend. Talk things over, don't force the moderator to pick sides.
Well..i am sorry your going through this. Did he do something in the past to make you suspicious and question his actions? If he never has, you really need to not only tell him, but SHOW him that you trust him and that you appreciate him and what he does for you. And as to will he come back...i don't know him and couldn't tell ya but i'am sure if he loves you he will, and if he doesn't and he is as good of a man as you say, he will be in your childs life. Sometimes people can only take so much of being questioned and once the damage has been done you can't really forget about it.