Sunday, July 25, 2010

Your knowledge and advice needed regarding my love life?

my bf and i have been 2gether for 2 years and we have future plans of perhaps marrage and a family but his currently facing difficulties at home to an extreme that now he needs to move out and can bearly affort it at this time... and our plans of moving out 2gether would be very pressured @ this moment and not the proper timing.... how can i help him out??? also, he can have family support (financiallY) out of state that is ... to make matters worse ...my bf has been through very rough times and finds himself emotionally wounded and is trying to overcome many things but it seems impossible and i just dont know what to do ???? please help all your advice will be greatly appreciated God bless you all thanks for your time!Your knowledge and advice needed regarding my love life?
He needs to do what is best for him and his situation right now. He needs to talk to someone who can understand and help him deal with the issues he has faced at home, if moving out of state is what he needs to do no matter how hard it is for you he must do it. All you can do is be there for him and listen. God bless i hope things work out for the both of you.Your knowledge and advice needed regarding my love life?
DONT JUMP FROM THE FRYING PAN INTO THE FIRE. TAKE MUCH TIME, ALL THE WHILE KEEPING YOUR THOUGHTS ON PREPARING YOURSELF FOR YOUR LIFE AHEAD WITH OR WITHOUT HIM. DONT PUT HARDSHIPS ON YOURSELVES TO THE POINT WHERE LIFE BECOMES A TREMENDOUS STRUGGLE . WAIT AND GET MORE ORGANIZATION IN EVERY ASPECT.
You have the toughest job of all. You have to be strong for him while he goes through this. You need to be his rock when everything else is in the crapper. You must also put your plans of marriage, kids, etc. on hold for a while until he can stand on his own. If you really love him %26amp; you still want to be together, then you both are going to have to sacrafice a little for the greater good. Just tough it out. It will strengthen your relationship in the long run. Plus, it'll make a good story to tell your kids %26amp; grandkids.

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