Frustrated...blow off steam..life kid, ttc....AAAAHHHHHHHH Advice would be nice.?

I would like to run away for just a few hours!!


Just some me time,


I have a high stress job, I drop and pick my kid up from day care, My days off are with my kid, which don't get me wrong, I love and wish there was more time. It is just my days off are full of cleaning, shopping(not the fun kind), and trying to potty train my kid..which is going all wrong. I am also taking Clomid and I am sick, got another cold...


now that kinda seems as though I am a single mom, No, my huspand of 7 years is till here. It is just he gets days off where I am at work and my child is at day care.....And he does nothing around the house, but cook supper. He will complain that he has to cook supper alll the time. But I look after our child and clean the house, looking after a kid is a lot of work....


I have had no me time in a long time!I need to run away!


I am broke, My Huby just got a new beater car.I need advice as to what should I do when I run away when he comes home from work with no money


thanxFrustrated...blow off steam..life kid, ttc....AAAAHHHHHHHH Advice would be nice.?
Angel, I agree that you need to have some ';me time'; A few hours at a spa getting a litle pampering would give you a few hours of relaxation. Your husband sounds like a real winner too, he should be doing more than just cooking, he should be helping with other chores too, like laundry and genral house keeping.


Sometimes it helps to blow off steam and get things off of yoru chest. If you have no one that you are comfortabel with in yoru life, my email address is listed on my profile. I have found in the past it helps to talk to someone that is totally outside of the situation, so feel free to send me a message





I hope things get better for you.Frustrated...blow off steam..life kid, ttc....AAAAHHHHHHHH Advice would be nice.?
Well that you can step away and blow off steam is the sign you are not too far gone :)





Please youare husband and you are in this family togehter so try to work out the situation beyond complaining about eachother complaining :)





I am reading a book called ';wroing with you is killing me '; with may help let go ao stress that you bring home





With all the mondane tasks with your baby bring a camera .....I ahve made silly videos out of special events and mundane things so maybe doing the same thing will help take the mundane edge off as you go trhouh out your day


Id post a link but there is a problem in answer right now so if you ahve tiem go to you tube adn look up the user name graceymanor ( that is all one word) adn loook at any of my videos names LIl Jack .....it will be good for a laugh and give you soem ideas








good luck to you
Well I think you might need to come off the clomid first b/c you do not need to have another child if you are this stressed out. I think you need to take a day off and go some were .. any were and have the day to your self!!! I think you need to just talk to him and maybe just get on some anxiety meds or depression meds for a little while to get you back on track.





Ps. what about him coming home with no money ... did not get that part???
OMG! Welcome to my singking boat,.... Been married 10 years (next month) and it is exactly the same way here. My kids are my world and I wouldnt give them up for anything.... But a little ';ME'; time would be nice. However, that is apparently not allowed.





My husband gets off work and comes home and doesnt do anything either. He will make dinner and is a great cook, but leave sthe HUGE mess for me..... He doesnt pick the kids up unless I moan and groan for him to do so.... Laundry and cleaning are like the plague to him.....





Needless to say, I feel your pain... I just want to run away or cry... which ever is more convenient... which is crying.... It seems to help at times, but dam is great big beer wouldnt help. You are not alone my friend... and if you need to vent, please e-mail me.....
if you both are working , hire a housekeeper for a few hours every other week. I did and i tell them how much $$$ i can afford and tell them that you can only get them for 2-3 hours. Your downtime is to valuable to waste it on cleaning and cooking. Also, see if you can find a place that fixes nutritious meals in bulk. try supersuppers.com they have a monthly menu to choose from.


Once again, Your time is valuable. Pay people to clean, take care of cars, cook, yardwork etc....


If not, why are you working???
He wouldn't still be my husband if I were in your situation.
Welcome to motherhood and marriage! I'm sorry to say but I think your being a little selfish. I'm sure you knew once you had a child your life of doing what you want all the time went out the window! Your responsibility of maintaining your home, marriage, and child should be your main concern, not running away for a few hours of ';me time'; \. I'm a mother too and although sometimes it does get hard to manage everything all at once It's part of my responsibilities and I am mature enough to realize that.


It sounds like your a young mother/wife. Perhaps you need to discuss this with your husband and not complete strangers





Good Luck!