Advice on my sex life?

ok my husband and i sex life is still pretty hot, but i love trying new things such as anal,spanking, gagging, and other stuff lol, but he said he's not in to all of that all the time. he loves when i go down on him and put it in my throat but he don't like ';doing it ruff'; i think thats pretty ruff to me. but anyway am i some sort of nympho?


i mean why do i want to do these freaky things i really don't think my husband can handle me like that what am i to do with my freaky thoughts?Advice on my sex life?
There is nothing wrong with your thoughts and tastes. You should talk with your husband and start working some of what you like into your repertoire. Tell him to remember that every time that you have sex doesn't have to be the ';freak-show';, but sometimes when the moon is full, he should be willing to please you. People get so defensive, sex should be fun, and especially if you are married and in a monogamous relationship, your partner has an obligation to work with you on these things. If you go down for him he should return the favor... if you are not already, try shaving the region... that way he has nothing to whine about... he should be so lucky to be with you! What a putz! Men would line up to fill your dance card, believe me! Good Luck :)Advice on my sex life?
hey i look at it this way different tricks for different chicks good luck on that one
You are right.You need to teach him step by step.
Well i don't know about nympho. i mean you don't seem like you want to have sex with anyone else other than your hubby. You are just a lot more open minded to new things than your hubby.





WHy not try getting a book, kamasutra? and start with something a little ';milder'; at first. If he still wouldn't budge.... well.. you really need to reach a middle ground. You two can always compromise. Have fun!
No your not crazy.. Maybe his background and the way he was brought up was a taboo thing. Usually its the women who have the problem.. But in your case, try talking to him about it when your not having sex find out what it is he doesn'tlike about it.. Does he think its dirty. or does he have hang ups that your his wife so he doesn't think his wife should behave this way. maybe yoru a mother and he thinks youshouldnt act this way. try to find out the root of this then you can work on fixing it.





Also try introducing him slowly to things and gradually so he won't feel so shocked. and get him involved more. maybe rent a movie with partcular things in it to show him .. Maybe he's shy and doesn't know how to do the things you ask. so instead of giving it a try and feel like he's a failure in your eyes he doesn't attempt it. rather than for him to feel embarrased.





Good luck
toys toys thats what you need
try easing him into it. give him advanced warning and then try something 'a little bit adventurous'. don't rush. give him time to get used to it. then, when he is comfortable - advance a little more.





if you take someone to the gym for the first time you don't give them a 300 pound bar bell to lift. you start small and work your way up.
Anything goes in the sex dept. as long as both partners agree.
Hey there Tameka, try this -


Set up a regular date night with your hubby! It could be weekly, monthly, what ever you can convince him to do.


On these nights, pick a restaurant he enjoys going to. Tell him ahead of time though that after dinner, the two of you are going home and having some fun! This way, he gets his dinner and you get your freaky sex! Another option is to stay at home and you make him a good dinner dressed in something so sexy he can't resist you! While it's cooking, the two of you can have each other as an appetizer! Slowly introduce him to the fun things you want to do! He will get into it.


One more, get a tiny plaid skirt and put it on with your tallest heels. Walk in and tell him you've been naughty and need to be spanked! Thats one way to get him to spank you.


Have fun and good luck!
Sit down, clothed, and talk to your husband. Set the boundaries in which you are both comfortable. If necessary, get sex therapy. You are not weird, just unique in manner, from any number of other couples.
Just tell him to try it and if he doesn't like it then yall won't do it no more but if he do like it things can go your way after that.
You tell him I say he is a lucky man and not to waste you.