Would u take your moms advice if it were to change your life for good?

im marrying a guy whos a member of the LDS church. my mom doesnt want to attend the wedding cause the bishop of the church is doing our vows. wich are private. he wanted to do our vows. i was finally ok with. im not sure if ill join the church, but i feel my mom is going off the deep end. i need some help and some major advice. what do i do. do i do what i want to do and marry the way we planned, or do we make her happy? my mom might be right about some things about the church and things, but im not sure if shes right about the bishop being all bad. he seems nice. what do i do? who do i make happy?Would u take your moms advice if it were to change your life for good?
You are the one getting married. You only need to make yourself happy. Do what your heart tells you is right.... and take the missionary discussions.Would u take your moms advice if it were to change your life for good?
First you must decide what would make you happiest and pursue that. But know this, your mom not being at your wedding will affect you for the rest of your life, and you seem to value her.