i feel like every one hates me!! i cry myself to sleep tonight and evry single person in my family puts me down , starts a fight with me or ignors me!! i feel so alone ,help, and like i am in hellHELP! my life is so bad and i need advice?
You don't say your age or sex, so it would have to be a very wild guess.
I would say the issue is within yourself. I would guess you are a teenager, and possibly female.
Firstly, you are not in hell, you just think you are at the moment.
Secondly, you are never alone. If you really need help or advice, your local phone book will have plenty of free helplines.
Thirdly, I would guess it's your perspective on everything that is getting you down. Try changing the way you react to situations.
You say that your family puts you down and starts a fight with you. It takes two to fight. Whatever is said, let it go over your head, refuse to fight and then you won't get upset.
Finally, I would suggest you try and speak to a friend or relative you know and trust, and who knows you and your family. Confide in someone who knows you better than an anonymous stranger like me.
Whatever you do, time will work things out for you, so here's wishing you a lot more happiness for the future.HELP! my life is so bad and i need advice?
okay, i've been there too.
try talking to someone about this, like a friend or even your parents.
tell them what exactly is going on, and just how you feel.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Any advice? Worst days of my life/ bf probably cheating. HELP ME PLEASE?
we are together for 3 1/2 yrs. were only 22.
for studies we both went abroad, same country, but different city. he is in the capital, lots of fun and distractions. im in a small city.
since hes here, hes only going out, partying...he has changed compeletly. we used to spend so much time together, everyday, plus talked on phone for a few times. Now he barely talks to me everyday. he calls for 2 min, and sometimes we skype but maimally for half an hour.
we had such a strong bond, and breaking up was unthinkable. yet 2 weeks ago (we are only here for a month and a half) after having an argument he wanted to break up with me. he said ii didnt leave him his freedom, he is young wants to be able to travel bla,bla,bla. i begged him not to, called 100 times. and then i gave up. he was like a changed person to me.
a day after, he called,saying hes sorry, hes been such an idiot and if i will forgive him. i did of course.
Still hes acting weired. I wanted to come and visit this weekend,a nd he told me he had some other plans,so for a month we wont be able to see eachother.
as i was at his place the last time(last week) and thats what intrigues me the most (its a bit pervert though, sorry) he had his genital area shaved. he only did that when he wanted me to give him a bj. and that day he didnt know i was going to come, so he didnt do that for me. also as he took a condom, i didnt see him opening any box,although i know we used all up the last time i was there.
i just dont know what to do. i didnt tell him anything. My heart is broken, but I have no evidence he did something. so i have nothing to confront him with. and now i saw on his fb wall, that one of his friends posted him a song about one night stands and stuff...that friend is a real playa, and they always talk about guy stuff...
i mean i know hes young and all...but if he loves meshouldnt he be faithfull??
please any advice on what to do would be apprechiated.
i dont just want to tell him that i suspect something, he would only tell me that i have no trust inhim and so on. I want something strong, some argument. what will i do??Any advice? Worst days of my life/ bf probably cheating. HELP ME PLEASE?
It seems that he is not that into you anymore. And yea it does seem like he did cheat. It seems that he is having too much fun. Do this: Call him and let him know how you feel, and then break up with him. Most likely he is going to call you anyways, it's hard to get over someone of 3 years. And if he don't call you then you two weren't meant to be.
for studies we both went abroad, same country, but different city. he is in the capital, lots of fun and distractions. im in a small city.
since hes here, hes only going out, partying...he has changed compeletly. we used to spend so much time together, everyday, plus talked on phone for a few times. Now he barely talks to me everyday. he calls for 2 min, and sometimes we skype but maimally for half an hour.
we had such a strong bond, and breaking up was unthinkable. yet 2 weeks ago (we are only here for a month and a half) after having an argument he wanted to break up with me. he said ii didnt leave him his freedom, he is young wants to be able to travel bla,bla,bla. i begged him not to, called 100 times. and then i gave up. he was like a changed person to me.
a day after, he called,saying hes sorry, hes been such an idiot and if i will forgive him. i did of course.
Still hes acting weired. I wanted to come and visit this weekend,a nd he told me he had some other plans,so for a month we wont be able to see eachother.
as i was at his place the last time(last week) and thats what intrigues me the most (its a bit pervert though, sorry) he had his genital area shaved. he only did that when he wanted me to give him a bj. and that day he didnt know i was going to come, so he didnt do that for me. also as he took a condom, i didnt see him opening any box,although i know we used all up the last time i was there.
i just dont know what to do. i didnt tell him anything. My heart is broken, but I have no evidence he did something. so i have nothing to confront him with. and now i saw on his fb wall, that one of his friends posted him a song about one night stands and stuff...that friend is a real playa, and they always talk about guy stuff...
i mean i know hes young and all...but if he loves meshouldnt he be faithfull??
please any advice on what to do would be apprechiated.
i dont just want to tell him that i suspect something, he would only tell me that i have no trust inhim and so on. I want something strong, some argument. what will i do??Any advice? Worst days of my life/ bf probably cheating. HELP ME PLEASE?
It seems that he is not that into you anymore. And yea it does seem like he did cheat. It seems that he is having too much fun. Do this: Call him and let him know how you feel, and then break up with him. Most likely he is going to call you anyways, it's hard to get over someone of 3 years. And if he don't call you then you two weren't meant to be.
Need advice, Cant enjoy anything in life without hating myself.?
In my life the people who I know and where I have made my friends from are all at my school. Most people at my school are shallow, self-involved arrogant assholes. Therefore I dont really engage in their stupid immature games to seem the coolest so they become popular.
I have learnt that the people who are the popular people always have something desirable to offer that seperates them from the norm or weird people ( kinda like me). If they have this, (eg. pretty, sporty) they are completely normail and accepted for whatever they do, wheras people who are basically invisible are simply laughed at and percieved as weird and un normal.
This is what has happened to me, so i am invisible therefore whenever I do anything it is seen as a joke because I am doing it.
This has made me see myself through there eyes meaning when I do anything I think of how they would react to seeing me do that. and feel ashamed of my identity through their eyes.
should I try to adapt and be able to offer something, or how do I not become dependent on others peoples opinion of me. and to be able to live my life without judgeing myself because of how other people view me,Need advice, Cant enjoy anything in life without hating myself.?
damn i think the exact same way.. if your in high school just count down the days until you get out because its not going to change.
It seems like you need to just stop giving a **** about what these people think and instead think about the future where their opinions will be long gone and you will have the chance to be more successful then them.. The immaturity in high school made me just stop trying. people thought i was quiet and shy but i really just was sick of and done with most everyones shallow bullsh*t and looking towards the future where i would never see them againNeed advice, Cant enjoy anything in life without hating myself.?
Why think of how others perceive you doing things? Who cares? Do what you want to do and don't let anyone drag you down. One thing you'll learn later in life is none of that bullsh*t matters. The 'weird' people end up being the cool people later in life.
I have a roommate like that.... my suggestion is don't read self help books they will screw you up and find people who you like.
I have learnt that the people who are the popular people always have something desirable to offer that seperates them from the norm or weird people ( kinda like me). If they have this, (eg. pretty, sporty) they are completely normail and accepted for whatever they do, wheras people who are basically invisible are simply laughed at and percieved as weird and un normal.
This is what has happened to me, so i am invisible therefore whenever I do anything it is seen as a joke because I am doing it.
This has made me see myself through there eyes meaning when I do anything I think of how they would react to seeing me do that. and feel ashamed of my identity through their eyes.
should I try to adapt and be able to offer something, or how do I not become dependent on others peoples opinion of me. and to be able to live my life without judgeing myself because of how other people view me,Need advice, Cant enjoy anything in life without hating myself.?
damn i think the exact same way.. if your in high school just count down the days until you get out because its not going to change.
It seems like you need to just stop giving a **** about what these people think and instead think about the future where their opinions will be long gone and you will have the chance to be more successful then them.. The immaturity in high school made me just stop trying. people thought i was quiet and shy but i really just was sick of and done with most everyones shallow bullsh*t and looking towards the future where i would never see them againNeed advice, Cant enjoy anything in life without hating myself.?
Why think of how others perceive you doing things? Who cares? Do what you want to do and don't let anyone drag you down. One thing you'll learn later in life is none of that bullsh*t matters. The 'weird' people end up being the cool people later in life.
I have a roommate like that.... my suggestion is don't read self help books they will screw you up and find people who you like.
Has any advice given on 'Yahoo Answers' ever changed anyone's life?
Yeah, I know how to color my borders on my blog!!! HAHAHAA!Has any advice given on 'Yahoo Answers' ever changed anyone's life?
No. But then I don't ask questions about what I should or should not do......
No. But then I don't ask questions about what I should or should not do......
Life advice...?
Give right and serious advice...
when you face problems from very early age, from childhood. Then your life take sharp turn and you blamed for very very high sin... God Help you in that time and you get courage, then your life take another sharp turn and you cheated... you got courage, then some one leave you, you can say that second love... but 2nd one didn't cheat, she have problem, mean she is right.
Extra courage which i always keep in my pocket is finished.
but again some litle courage born and i want that i come to life again, but keep myself again from all these things, so i don't make friends, nor i talk with some one (i don't know i fear from peoples or i hate), and after that i always injure myself (self injury), and do things like mad peoples...i feel guilty and shame that why i am so bad...
i tought last night that i come to life again like others but keep myself from another ';SHARP TURNs';.
so any advices?Life advice...?
Learn islam... Read Qur'an ...live as It saying........Life advice...?
You are not the only one, almost every one faces these difficulties in life...these difficulties are the tests on the basis of which we will be judged by Allah...the key to success is how you respond to them.
1. Always pray to Allah to help you out, for there is no one else who understands you better or loves you more.
2. Try to take things positively.
3. Learn to forgive, for the sake of Allah.
4. Focus the bigger reward i.e. the happiness of Allah.
5. Whenever doing anything, always think whether Allah will like this act of yours or not.Feel Him, He is always watching you.
May Allah help you and guide you always (Amin).
you could answer my answerless question, plzzzz :-) http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvPQS7S58jBvc159UeZ1rjDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080730034802AATolee
worship Allah as if you see Him, and if you do not see Him, then He sees you.
well, all i can say is life's not a bed of roses. it comes with lots of problems and sadness and challenges. in every one of us, there is courage and bravery and we must find it within ourselves to fight the good fight against life's challenges and face the real world with the will to survive. hurting yourself isn't going to make yourself feel better. why don't you stand up, beat your chests and tell yourself i am going to live my life to the fullest. throw in the challenges! i will face them like a real man and enjoy every single moment of it. because i am no quitter.
and i believe you can. come what may buddy. come what may.cream tones
when you face problems from very early age, from childhood. Then your life take sharp turn and you blamed for very very high sin... God Help you in that time and you get courage, then your life take another sharp turn and you cheated... you got courage, then some one leave you, you can say that second love... but 2nd one didn't cheat, she have problem, mean she is right.
Extra courage which i always keep in my pocket is finished.
but again some litle courage born and i want that i come to life again, but keep myself again from all these things, so i don't make friends, nor i talk with some one (i don't know i fear from peoples or i hate), and after that i always injure myself (self injury), and do things like mad peoples...i feel guilty and shame that why i am so bad...
i tought last night that i come to life again like others but keep myself from another ';SHARP TURNs';.
so any advices?Life advice...?
Learn islam... Read Qur'an ...live as It saying........Life advice...?
You are not the only one, almost every one faces these difficulties in life...these difficulties are the tests on the basis of which we will be judged by Allah...the key to success is how you respond to them.
1. Always pray to Allah to help you out, for there is no one else who understands you better or loves you more.
2. Try to take things positively.
3. Learn to forgive, for the sake of Allah.
4. Focus the bigger reward i.e. the happiness of Allah.
5. Whenever doing anything, always think whether Allah will like this act of yours or not.Feel Him, He is always watching you.
May Allah help you and guide you always (Amin).
you could answer my answerless question, plzzzz :-) http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvPQS7S58jBvc159UeZ1rjDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080730034802AATolee
worship Allah as if you see Him, and if you do not see Him, then He sees you.
well, all i can say is life's not a bed of roses. it comes with lots of problems and sadness and challenges. in every one of us, there is courage and bravery and we must find it within ourselves to fight the good fight against life's challenges and face the real world with the will to survive. hurting yourself isn't going to make yourself feel better. why don't you stand up, beat your chests and tell yourself i am going to live my life to the fullest. throw in the challenges! i will face them like a real man and enjoy every single moment of it. because i am no quitter.
and i believe you can. come what may buddy. come what may.
Life.sucks.for.me.any advice?
i'm 16.
persian.
no status in canada meaning not a landed immigrant, citizen or whatever.
not a good relationship with my mother.
her bf...i don't like.
live with mom and her parents in a 2 bedroom apartment.
no cellphone.
curfew 9 pm even on weekends.
no guy friends allowed.
my mom basically has to pick my friends for me. or if she doesn't like my friend, i can't be with her.
i sleep on a mattress.
financially, quite poor.
i'm broken most of the time.
i find life pointless
sometimes i wish the mother i have right now, was not my biological mother and that i have been adopted, so i could go search for my real mother.
dad not in canada.
i have absolutely no connection with him.
i have a bf..he's rich..comes from a good family,
and accepts me for who i am.
i just can't help but feel...10 levels lower than him.
he loves his life.
i'm not allowed msn or anything.
i just want a normal life.
where i live in a better place,
go out with friends,
go out with bf without having the fear of my mother finding out and worriyng about what she'll do to me.
he makes me happy.
really happy.
he just gives me something to look forward to.
and you can say i'm a teen and so is he and that he's immature and just wants one thing and that i am stupid.
but i think i know the difference between being happy and totally miserable.
and i don't want to throw away something that makes me feel alive.
although it might be the right thing to do.
i just want a normal life.
i've basically raised myself.
my mom is crazy at times. basically if for example she tells me there is an alligator where i'm walking, she won't warn me or tell me to be cautious. she'll just put a big wall so i never cross that line.
she thinks she's the best and never admits that she's wrong.
i just want to have my own room
where i could spend my happy times in or cry myself to sleep.
...
i want to be like how most people seem like they are.
am i asking for too much?Life.sucks.for.me.any advice?
Try the book ';The power of positive thinking';
In your case, almost anything you thought that wasn't on this list would be an improvment. It's not about your situation. We all have crap to deal with. It's your attitude that's making you miserable. You've chosen to be misserable.
Another suggestion would be to go on eBay and pick up Tony Robbins ';Personal power II'; set of CD's. That will improve your attitude and your life. He has lots of stuff out and asside from his newest set which I haven't heard yet I think the personal power II is the best and it's cheap now because it's a few years old.Life.sucks.for.me.any advice?
amen.. my life is just about the same as yours except i'm not persian, have no boyfriend, and have my own room/bed, oh and i live in america, not canada.. that's about it..
No you are not asking too much.
That is why it is very important that you get a good education so that you can fulfill most of your dreams without depending on anybody to do it for you. Good things comes to those who wait. Patience is a virtue. Aim high and you will succeed.
Bsaically try to bide your time for 2 more years and prepare yourself to move out when of legal age. Never put yourself down try to focus on positives and maybe speak to and confide in a trusted adult at school that will help you get more personalized feedback.
Your mum seems to be your biggest problem i hate to say. You need to be around people that give you love and support and your mum isn't providing that. Your bf seems to be nice for you , you just need to realize you are worthy of his love and affection. Can you move with him for a while maybe ur mum might realize what she is doing to you.
Good luck x
persian.
no status in canada meaning not a landed immigrant, citizen or whatever.
not a good relationship with my mother.
her bf...i don't like.
live with mom and her parents in a 2 bedroom apartment.
no cellphone.
curfew 9 pm even on weekends.
no guy friends allowed.
my mom basically has to pick my friends for me. or if she doesn't like my friend, i can't be with her.
i sleep on a mattress.
financially, quite poor.
i'm broken most of the time.
i find life pointless
sometimes i wish the mother i have right now, was not my biological mother and that i have been adopted, so i could go search for my real mother.
dad not in canada.
i have absolutely no connection with him.
i have a bf..he's rich..comes from a good family,
and accepts me for who i am.
i just can't help but feel...10 levels lower than him.
he loves his life.
i'm not allowed msn or anything.
i just want a normal life.
where i live in a better place,
go out with friends,
go out with bf without having the fear of my mother finding out and worriyng about what she'll do to me.
he makes me happy.
really happy.
he just gives me something to look forward to.
and you can say i'm a teen and so is he and that he's immature and just wants one thing and that i am stupid.
but i think i know the difference between being happy and totally miserable.
and i don't want to throw away something that makes me feel alive.
although it might be the right thing to do.
i just want a normal life.
i've basically raised myself.
my mom is crazy at times. basically if for example she tells me there is an alligator where i'm walking, she won't warn me or tell me to be cautious. she'll just put a big wall so i never cross that line.
she thinks she's the best and never admits that she's wrong.
i just want to have my own room
where i could spend my happy times in or cry myself to sleep.
...
i want to be like how most people seem like they are.
am i asking for too much?Life.sucks.for.me.any advice?
Try the book ';The power of positive thinking';
In your case, almost anything you thought that wasn't on this list would be an improvment. It's not about your situation. We all have crap to deal with. It's your attitude that's making you miserable. You've chosen to be misserable.
Another suggestion would be to go on eBay and pick up Tony Robbins ';Personal power II'; set of CD's. That will improve your attitude and your life. He has lots of stuff out and asside from his newest set which I haven't heard yet I think the personal power II is the best and it's cheap now because it's a few years old.Life.sucks.for.me.any advice?
amen.. my life is just about the same as yours except i'm not persian, have no boyfriend, and have my own room/bed, oh and i live in america, not canada.. that's about it..
No you are not asking too much.
That is why it is very important that you get a good education so that you can fulfill most of your dreams without depending on anybody to do it for you. Good things comes to those who wait. Patience is a virtue. Aim high and you will succeed.
Bsaically try to bide your time for 2 more years and prepare yourself to move out when of legal age. Never put yourself down try to focus on positives and maybe speak to and confide in a trusted adult at school that will help you get more personalized feedback.
Your mum seems to be your biggest problem i hate to say. You need to be around people that give you love and support and your mum isn't providing that. Your bf seems to be nice for you , you just need to realize you are worthy of his love and affection. Can you move with him for a while maybe ur mum might realize what she is doing to you.
Good luck x
My partner is on life support after a motorbike accident can anyone give me advice and support?
It happened last saturday, hes on a ventilator, im a nurse too so finding it hard to deal with,, does anyone have any advice or supportMy partner is on life support after a motorbike accident can anyone give me advice and support?
You just have to be there for your partner,that's all you can do.Be strong and brave.My partner is on life support after a motorbike accident can anyone give me advice and support?
I have a story to share with you to keep you thinking positive.
My partner was in a severe accident. Suffered severe head trauma, internal injuries, ruptured spleen, collapsed lungs, broken neck and shattered leg.
They said he wouldn't make it, but he did.
They said he wouldn't walk again, but he did.
They said the brain damage was so severe that he may never speak again, but he did.
Just as he was almost ';out of the woods';, he fell ill to pneumonia, and they said he might not make it, but he did.
He was hospitalized for six months, but he MADE A FULL RECOVERY.
Except for some short term memory loss, loss of sense of smell, many scars, and the necessity to be on seizure meds for the rest of his life, he is now healthy.
I didn't meet him until two years after the accident, and except for scars - I would've never known. He has also gained a greater appreciation for life.
Never give up hope.
Sending best wishes.
hang on in there,fingers crossed , where theres life theres hope,good luck and best wishes to you both
Dear Julie,
I have no words, but I advise you to pray and ask for healing and call on friends and loved ones close to help you in this time. I will pray too. Best wishes.
sorry just doesnt say enough, my thoughts and prayers are with you....the best of luck...God Bless....
Julie B . YOU DO HAVE TO BELIEVE IN ANYTHING TO DO THIS i KNOW IT WORK'S SO HAVE A GO ..take a deep breath and hold for a short while,whist you do so say to your self that the sun is right above you head as you beath in you are taking in confidence positiveness %26amp; a healing friendship, these are in a form of capule that gos into your lungs, when you exhale let the air out slowly like your whisle.let the feeling out of your lungs and into your tummy and release to your entire body, keep repeating
hi am i a nurse as well and as we both know we advise in the job just to keep talking and reassuring them, but it's hard to do, you doing all you can and am sure your doing brilliantly, and he is most likely to know your there, if you need to talk email me
my brother in law was in a motorbike accident 10 years ago and he ended up on life support. he is now left with a damaged immune system but is otherwise healthy. so dont give up hope, I`m sure he`ll be fine. I`ll be thinking of you both.
advice, well i guess think positive and believe it will come right
support well i am a good listner call me on skype trisha-jane1963 if you want a chat or on msn e mail address trishaf2001@yahoo.co.uk
My mum was on life support, just tell him everything you want to tell him incase he doesn't make it, i didn't and i regret it a little bit.
Really hope he pulls through, your in my thought and prayers.
I can't think of anything else, but hugs from me.
Pray and ask God to help you and he will.
I am a nurse too and know when you are going thru something like this, you have enough knowledge to make you more anxious. When you are feeling anxious, pray and find comfort in knowing there is a higher power who can fill all of your needs and
You will be all right.
I'm sorry, but there's no point to wisdom after the event - that an accident on a given stretch of road is 23 times more likely to involve a motorbike, though they account for just 3% of road traffic, and the accident is forty times more likely to be fatal than a car-crash. They are inherently unsafe. OK, he's made it this far, he looks like he's gonna turn the corner real soon. It must be very hard for you, having him there, but unreachable, I've had that with my elderly parents, when their times came. But that was through old-age. These damn bikes, they are for the track alone. I won't ride on the road, Barry Sheene wouldn't. I'm sure you've seen the carnage they cause, as I have. I don't really know what else to say, it's all up to him now. But I bet when you get him back, you'll insist it's a car for him in future.
All my best to you both.
Good luck.
JUST AVIN YOU AROUND IS ALL HE NEEDS HUN ..GD LUCK ..JUST KEEP TALKING TO HIM HUN.XXX
As a nurse you know his body has been told by his brain to rest and the ventilator can take some much needed pressure off his brain and heart.Just trust in him to be strong and make a gradual recovery .It is possible and happens quite frequently.
I'm thinking of you both right now.
That's all I am able to offer you.
Fingers crossed for his recovery.
Love to you both
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
well, i know how scared you must feel and although i am not a religious person...i will still pray for you both. just take each day as it comes...i, too, have been through something simular and i will be thinking of you....keep you're family close and cry as often as you can,you need to get it out.
good luck.
It must be horrible for you. I can only imagine. You have to keep strong for your partner for when he comes around, and he will! Unfortunately your life will be put on hold until he gets better and there is not a lot you can do about that but what i would say is talk to someone. Its important to share your feelings and get things off your chest. Are you able to talk to your partner? Perhaps he will be able to hear you in some way and it may be reassuring for him to hear your voice.
I sincerely wish everything works out alright for you x
Firstly i am so sorry, you must be going through hell right now, bless your heart. To be honest, whether you are a religious person or not, prayer can be very powerful, go to the hospital chapel and light a candle for him, do your best to empty your mind of everything else and pray for him. I have a disability and have spent a lot of time in hospital. I want you to know that i really admire the work you nurses do, hang in there, God is with you, i will pray for him too. If u would like to get in touch please do thru my profile, i would like to know how he is doing. Love and hugs xxxx
reall sorry to hear that,its hard to give advice,my son was on a ventilator after heart surgery 15 years ago,it was the worst time of our lives,so i really feel for you,but try to remain positive,take each day as it comes,my son was fine,but i still cant watch programes on tv of kids in hospitals,and im a big 41 year old bloke,being a nurse must be even harder for you,but always try to look forwards,talk to your family,and other people in hospital,it helped us,i really hope every thing turns out fine for you,im sure it will :)
There's always hope. Pray relentlessly, and have as many people as you can get to pray with you do likewise. Life's trials are designed to strengthen us. Believe the best is yet to come. God bless, and be with you.
Take care all will be fine just having u round will do wonders god bless
You just have to be there for your partner,that's all you can do.Be strong and brave.My partner is on life support after a motorbike accident can anyone give me advice and support?
I have a story to share with you to keep you thinking positive.
My partner was in a severe accident. Suffered severe head trauma, internal injuries, ruptured spleen, collapsed lungs, broken neck and shattered leg.
They said he wouldn't make it, but he did.
They said he wouldn't walk again, but he did.
They said the brain damage was so severe that he may never speak again, but he did.
Just as he was almost ';out of the woods';, he fell ill to pneumonia, and they said he might not make it, but he did.
He was hospitalized for six months, but he MADE A FULL RECOVERY.
Except for some short term memory loss, loss of sense of smell, many scars, and the necessity to be on seizure meds for the rest of his life, he is now healthy.
I didn't meet him until two years after the accident, and except for scars - I would've never known. He has also gained a greater appreciation for life.
Never give up hope.
Sending best wishes.
hang on in there,fingers crossed , where theres life theres hope,good luck and best wishes to you both
Dear Julie,
I have no words, but I advise you to pray and ask for healing and call on friends and loved ones close to help you in this time. I will pray too. Best wishes.
sorry just doesnt say enough, my thoughts and prayers are with you....the best of luck...God Bless....
Julie B . YOU DO HAVE TO BELIEVE IN ANYTHING TO DO THIS i KNOW IT WORK'S SO HAVE A GO ..take a deep breath and hold for a short while,whist you do so say to your self that the sun is right above you head as you beath in you are taking in confidence positiveness %26amp; a healing friendship, these are in a form of capule that gos into your lungs, when you exhale let the air out slowly like your whisle.let the feeling out of your lungs and into your tummy and release to your entire body, keep repeating
hi am i a nurse as well and as we both know we advise in the job just to keep talking and reassuring them, but it's hard to do, you doing all you can and am sure your doing brilliantly, and he is most likely to know your there, if you need to talk email me
my brother in law was in a motorbike accident 10 years ago and he ended up on life support. he is now left with a damaged immune system but is otherwise healthy. so dont give up hope, I`m sure he`ll be fine. I`ll be thinking of you both.
advice, well i guess think positive and believe it will come right
support well i am a good listner call me on skype trisha-jane1963 if you want a chat or on msn e mail address trishaf2001@yahoo.co.uk
My mum was on life support, just tell him everything you want to tell him incase he doesn't make it, i didn't and i regret it a little bit.
Really hope he pulls through, your in my thought and prayers.
I can't think of anything else, but hugs from me.
Pray and ask God to help you and he will.
I am a nurse too and know when you are going thru something like this, you have enough knowledge to make you more anxious. When you are feeling anxious, pray and find comfort in knowing there is a higher power who can fill all of your needs and
You will be all right.
I'm sorry, but there's no point to wisdom after the event - that an accident on a given stretch of road is 23 times more likely to involve a motorbike, though they account for just 3% of road traffic, and the accident is forty times more likely to be fatal than a car-crash. They are inherently unsafe. OK, he's made it this far, he looks like he's gonna turn the corner real soon. It must be very hard for you, having him there, but unreachable, I've had that with my elderly parents, when their times came. But that was through old-age. These damn bikes, they are for the track alone. I won't ride on the road, Barry Sheene wouldn't. I'm sure you've seen the carnage they cause, as I have. I don't really know what else to say, it's all up to him now. But I bet when you get him back, you'll insist it's a car for him in future.
All my best to you both.
Good luck.
JUST AVIN YOU AROUND IS ALL HE NEEDS HUN ..GD LUCK ..JUST KEEP TALKING TO HIM HUN.XXX
As a nurse you know his body has been told by his brain to rest and the ventilator can take some much needed pressure off his brain and heart.Just trust in him to be strong and make a gradual recovery .It is possible and happens quite frequently.
I'm thinking of you both right now.
That's all I am able to offer you.
Fingers crossed for his recovery.
Love to you both
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
well, i know how scared you must feel and although i am not a religious person...i will still pray for you both. just take each day as it comes...i, too, have been through something simular and i will be thinking of you....keep you're family close and cry as often as you can,you need to get it out.
good luck.
It must be horrible for you. I can only imagine. You have to keep strong for your partner for when he comes around, and he will! Unfortunately your life will be put on hold until he gets better and there is not a lot you can do about that but what i would say is talk to someone. Its important to share your feelings and get things off your chest. Are you able to talk to your partner? Perhaps he will be able to hear you in some way and it may be reassuring for him to hear your voice.
I sincerely wish everything works out alright for you x
Firstly i am so sorry, you must be going through hell right now, bless your heart. To be honest, whether you are a religious person or not, prayer can be very powerful, go to the hospital chapel and light a candle for him, do your best to empty your mind of everything else and pray for him. I have a disability and have spent a lot of time in hospital. I want you to know that i really admire the work you nurses do, hang in there, God is with you, i will pray for him too. If u would like to get in touch please do thru my profile, i would like to know how he is doing. Love and hugs xxxx
reall sorry to hear that,its hard to give advice,my son was on a ventilator after heart surgery 15 years ago,it was the worst time of our lives,so i really feel for you,but try to remain positive,take each day as it comes,my son was fine,but i still cant watch programes on tv of kids in hospitals,and im a big 41 year old bloke,being a nurse must be even harder for you,but always try to look forwards,talk to your family,and other people in hospital,it helped us,i really hope every thing turns out fine for you,im sure it will :)
There's always hope. Pray relentlessly, and have as many people as you can get to pray with you do likewise. Life's trials are designed to strengthen us. Believe the best is yet to come. God bless, and be with you.
Take care all will be fine just having u round will do wonders god bless
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